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Three Feeling Tones and Why They Matter

Three Feeling Tones and Why They Matter

Feeling tones refer to the affective quality or tone associated with an experience. Affective qualities are the energies in your body. Noticing how this energy presents in your body and curiously observing it without trying to control it, is an underpinning of...

Three Feeling Tones and Why They Matter

Feeling tones refer to the affective quality or tone associated with an experience. Affective qualities are the energies in your body. Noticing how this energy presents in your body and curiously observing it without trying to control it, is an underpinning of...

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Three Feeling Tones and Why They Matter

Three Feeling Tones and Why They Matter

Feeling tones refer to the affective quality or tone associated with an experience. Affective qualities are the energies in your body. Noticing how this energy presents in your body and curiously observing it without trying to control it, is an underpinning of...

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What it Feels Like to be Unsafe

What it Feels Like to be Unsafe

We all feel unsafe at times in our lives, because frankly, the world can dish out some rough situations. From natural disasters to dangerous people, we can see a lack of safety wherever we look. As children, we needed others to keep us safe and when we didn’t get...

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What it Feels Like to Be Safe

What it Feels Like to Be Safe

Experiencing calm, sleeping well, and having a basic sense that all is well, is not unobtainable. These are things we feel when have a state of safety. However, in a world of physical and psychological dangers, sometimes these experiences feel outside of our grasp....

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Be a Curious Observer in Your Own Healing

Be a Curious Observer in Your Own Healing

Wake up the curious observer in you by being a participant in your physical and emotional healing. When you are curious, you take judgment out of any process. This keeps you from attaching to outcomes and allows you some psychological space to see things differently....

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Why Feeling Safe Matters

Why Feeling Safe Matters

You deserve to feel safe. That is your basic human right. Feeling safe matters, because it allows you a greater joy in any of your life pursuits. Though this world has so many components of lack of safety, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and exhausted (and unsafe) in...

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The Problem with Thinking

The Problem with Thinking

Thinking is a habit. You might not even realize it, but most of your thoughts are just recycled stories from your past. What was once a real event in your life has turned into a well-worn narrative, replaying over and over to satisfy some need you might not even be...

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Creating a Safe, Sacred Space

Creating a Safe, Sacred Space

A place to feel connected with your authentic soul-self. There are many ways to help yourself feel safe and secure, and few are as primary as creating an environment that you can return to time and again. A space that nurtures you is like a longtime trusted friend. In...

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Connection Feels Good: How to Create More

Connection Feels Good: How to Create More

Humans are wired to connect. Therapists call this innate drive "co-regulation." When you're with someone who makes you feel safe, your body responds with a cascade of calming effects. The vagus nerve signals your central nervous system that you're in a safe space,...

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